🔥 What You’ll Hear in This Episode

01:01 When the Ground Shifts Beneath You

Becky opens up about the moment her second marriage began to unravel. Just four months after moving to Hawaii, her husband told her, “I’m having a hard time seeing the value you bring to my life.” That comment sparked something deep, and it became the catalyst for Becky to reclaim her power.

“Whether or not you choose to see my value is none of my business. I know what I bring to the table.”

She didn’t just walk away. She leaned in, legally and emotionally, and began a journey few would ever choose, but many women may recognize.

06:30 From Self-Representation to Legal Strategy

After being served and stonewalled, Becky decided to serve back — with subpoenas. She taught herself how to draft, file, and execute them with precision, despite having no legal background.

What started as self-preservation quickly became empowerment. Becky explains how that knowledge became the foundation of her business:

“Subpoenas were what allowed me to win. And not just win — I got a fair and equitable division.”

Her experience led to the birth of ONLY Subpoenas™, a service helping individuals (and their attorneys) gather crucial evidence in family court cases. Her mission? To ensure no woman feels powerless in a system she doesn't understand.

13:30 Visibility Isn’t Just Marketing, It’s Internal

We dive into one of the most powerful themes of the episode: visibility.

Becky reveals that during her court case, she went silent on social media — not out of fear, but out of necessity. She needed to protect herself. And when she finally returned to public storytelling, she did it on her own terms.

“I had to be careful. But once the case was over, I could share my truth. And I knew other women needed to hear it.”

Her lesson? Visibility starts with internal clarity. Until you believe in your worth, no external content strategy will matter.

20:15 Rebuilding with Purpose and Hiring for Impact

Becky shares how she’s now hiring stay-at-home moms and women coming out of divorce to do subpoena work — offering both income and a path back to confidence.

“There are women out there who have raised kids for decades and have no idea how to start over. I want to give them that first step.”

Her work is about more than forms and filings. It’s about showing women they still have agency, still have value, and still have something powerful to build.

27:00 Marketing, Mindset, and the Willingness to Be Seen

We switch gears to talk about business strategy. Becky, a seasoned designer and marketer, knows that even the best service can fail without visibility.

“If you don’t have your billboard up, no one knows you exist.”

She encourages entrepreneurs to invest in visibility — from content to strategy to community — and not to wait for perfection before stepping into the spotlight.